04/14/25

They’re Always Watching

Earlier this year.

I'm seated on the subway in Taiwan, on an overseas trip with my wife. Suddenly, a worker makes a beeline towards me and says something. My Chinese is decent but not advanced enough to decipher his words. So I stare at my wife/translator:

"He's telling you to spit out your gum."

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Apparently, this no gum chewing thing is a no starter and fully punishable in accordance with the law. I balk when I find out the hefty price tag of said infraction (which I luckily avoided).

My wife revels in these I told you so moments but doesn't realize I have a hard time detecting the signal from her verbal noise (don't tell her I said this).

Later, I remember the worker was at the opposite end of our compartment. How on earth did he notice I was (unwittingly) playing the role of rebel, even though my mandibles were only subtly moving under a medical facemask?

CCTV.

Unless you've been stuck in your mom's basement, you know that in Asian countries there are cameras EVERYWHERE. Undoubtedly, this is why the majority of these countries' denizens are on their best behavior (not that it doesn't prevent a minority from having their foolish behavior recorded and often broadcast for the entire world's amusement/condemnation).

To hammer the point home, my father-in-law later relates to me a story of how he once found a non-negligible sum of money on the street and immediately brought it to the nearest police station. This is the default rule in this situation, because if you don't do this they will definitively track you down. The police will next broadcast the financial loss to the general public. In this instance, no one laid claim and my father-in-law became the lucky recipient.

It begs the question if this is even ethically right to do. Where is the line drawn before it is crossed into dystopian Orwellian proportions?

I don't doubt this will never happen in America, a place that it so diametrically solipsistic to the status quo environment of Asia. However, whether this is good or not is debatable. For example, note the amount of videos that exist online of poor behavior being recorded in public (with or without the perpetrator's knowledge) and the ensuing public outrage that seems to be the only form of pressure strong enough to elicit contrition (mandatory it may seem).

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The older I get the more I turn to philosophy (i.e. Stoicism) and, at a smaller-scale, religion (which often gets a bad rap because of misapplication of its core ideas). Both are much less about literally believing there is a bearded figure in the clouds ready to mete out justice or bring forth calamity if He judges you to be immoral, and more about giving you a playbook to be a good human being.

Side note: this is why atheism feels like such a faulty axiom. I can't disassociate myself from the belief that there is no God is believing yourself to be worthier than God. Like, aren't we collectively narcissistic enough?

Part of that playbook is to act as if all your actions (private or not) are being watched by these higher powers (Gods, the gods, the Universe, Hemingway). In short, you do the right thing whether or not you're seen doing that right thing. Not only that, you often do that right thing even if it causes you harm (another reason why those not so random acts of kindness videos on YouTube are the most inauthentic things ever).

It reminds me of Steve Jobs' zeal for design. The first time I bought an iPhone, I distinctly remember the pleasurable experience of unboxing a beautifully packaged product step by meticulous step. Not that I ever opened up my iPhone, but Jobs even insisted that the interior be as aesthetically pleasing as the outer surface.

What best explains this fanaticism is the story of a Greek sculptor who was once commissioned to build statues for a building in Athens (paraphrasing here because I've read countless different versions of this story). For months the sculptor toiled to make the backs of the heads as beautiful as the fronts. When his compatriot asked him why he was bothering to waste his time doing such a thing when no one would would ever notice, this was his reply:

"The gods can see them and so can I."

Cheers.

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